Keep the relationship between the two of you, and when marriage becomes a consideration, have him introduce you to the kids.Think of it from a child’s perspective: Dad has a new girlfriend for a few months and then she goes away.Dating a man who has kids obviously have some disadvantages, but it also has some really good advantages as well!
For some of you, the risk is worth it; for others, it’s not.
After all, it’s not just the fact that you have to make it work with the person you’re dating and the child that comes along with him or her, but you also have to deal with the ex who is the other parent to that child.
The good news is that millions of men and women make it work, which is proof that it is possible.
Prior to meeting this new person, did you know that you wanted kids?
The most promising and successful scenario in dating someone with a child involves you knowing – with no doubts or hesitations – that you want kids.